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7 Sex Situations Not to Be Embarrassed About

Posted in: Sex Tips | Mar 26, 2008 - 3:28:17 PM

Nobody likes to be sideswiped during sex. People prefer at least to appear to know what they are doing. They like to handle the unexpected with a bit of grace.

Yet there are a few scenarios that can throw even the best of lovers for a bit of a loop. Typically involving tears, fluids or noises, some situations prove themselves to be more unnerving than others.

Nobody likes to be sideswiped during sex. People prefer at least to appear to know what they are doing. They like to handle the unexpected with a bit of grace.

Yet there are a few scenarios that can throw even the best of lovers for a bit of a loop. Typically involving tears, fluids or noises, some situations prove themselves to be more unnerving than others.

It's no wonder, then, that lovers may find themselves freaking out over any of the following situations:

Crying During Sex
It is not uncommon for individuals, usually women, to cry during or right after sex.

There could be any number of reasons for this reaction. On a psychological level, your love may be emotionally moved by the intensity and closeness of the experience. Or, on a much different note, your partner may be having a distressful flashback, which involves some sort of sexual trauma.

Sex therapists and researchers William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian proposed a physiological explanation for the shedding of tears. They proposed that since an orgasm is triggered by deep stimulation to the uterus and strong uterine contractions, then the involuntary sobbing may be due to the vagus nerve in the brainstem being stimulated. This causes a ripple effect that triggers a cricopharyngeal reflex in the throat.

The practice of Tantric sex further explains this phenomenon along the lines of "energy dynamics." During lovemaking, emotions stored in the body are loosened and freed by sexual energy.

No matter what the reason for crying, don't freak out. Be loving, accepting, and supportive of your partner. If you need to figure out the "why," save it for later.

Laughing During Sex
Like I said above, sex involves the release of different emotions and sensations, many of which reach explosive levels. As you venture through the sexual response cycle, your entire body is dealing with tension that keeps building for a different sort of orgasmic discharge.

If you or your lover laughs, that too, is normal. A giggle's escape is the energetic release of this crescendo. This is a perfectly natural occurrence, and may happen again. Don't take it as insult, but have fun with it! After all, Inuit Eskimos referred to sex as "laughing time!"

Lack of Lubrication
Although a rough ride in the sack is typically a titillating thought, getting on board is anything but when the treacherous terrain is a woman's vaginal canal. Most women will experience dryness, even to the point of irritation, at some point in their sex careers. This could be due to:

• Lack of lubrication - for example, a lack of foreplay
• Lack of desire
• Hormones, such as birth control or pregnancy-related issues
• Where she is at in her menstrual cycle
• Stress
• Drugs (medications, alcohol, or illegal ones such as marijuana)
• An infection
• Aging and menopause

If the problem is sidelining your sex life, consider the above issues and have your lover schedule an appointment with her health practitioner to address potential medical issues. Also, it may be worth investing in a lubricant.

Experiment with different types of sexual thirst quenchers, such as water-based or silicone-based ones, to find out which works best for you. This is typically a temporary problem.

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